TRUST- the foundation step to FRIENDSHIP!!!!

The word 'trust' builds among the most common words like belief, faith etc.. For different people the word means different. It may take someone to build u trust easily and for other one it might be very difficult.

Sometimes, it is the binding relationship which forces you to trust the other, but mostly, it is the bond that creates the trust. 'Bond' and 'trust' are directly proportional to each other. As the bond increases, trust increases and vice versa.

In the last five years of college, I had varied kind of relationship with different people and today I have a very strong bond with some of them. This post is for those friends of mine whom I can never forget- whether they were my batch mates or my sweet juniors. I cannot resist myself to mention few them here, as they have truly found a place in my life.

Firstly, my biggest Enemy friend, Ramu- well what to say. As soon as I take this name, I am just reminded of the song ‘dushman na kare dost ne woh kaam kiya hai...’ but to be true, I had the most happening time of my life in these last two years. Yes, before that for three years, I didn’t pay much attention to her, as in even if she exists in the class, but the moment I shifted to this hostel, all I had was her beside me. So the bond with her is like the strongest! :D

Then, I have to mention Sukanya. ‘Friends forever’ surely applies here. From the very first semester till now, she has been the best friend to me. We have fought, gotten angry with each other (mostly her getting angry, as I definitely end up making more mistakes), laughed and danced together, and lots more. In these five years, I learnt what her friendship meant to me. Our bond, I can’t even imagine to define the limit of it, as its’ so high. 

 Aayush Juneja, the biggest enemy of my life, but with time, the best supporter to me. The only quote which can explain my trust on him is ‘A friend in need is a friend indeed’. Though he is sometimes, actually most of the time is very irritating but then, he is Aayush! He is the one who is always gonna be there for you. Though we fight with each other like cats and dogs- still I love the fact that we are still friends. :)

 Nandini, Pritha, Saumya and Sneha, well somehow, the relationship was binding in starting but then the ‘i’ got replaced with ‘o’ and it all just started growing and kept its pace evenly.

The most amazing was with Dubey, with the last four months we started talking and found out to be way to close and good friends that at least I ended up stating that why the hell was I ever on talking terms with her. But as we say, ‘it’s better to be late, then never’. In her I found myself to be confiding at the time when I couldn't trust on my own. Oh, I totally can't end her part until I mention, that she is the biggest fan of Shahrukh Khan- I know this can be controversial but then, I have only seen her!!! :D

Lastly, how can I even think of missing the seven girls of my floor, without whom I think, it would have been very difficult to adjust to the new hostel. With the entrance of Sonam, all the girls on my floor took a place in my daily life as if my they have been my own children. Neha, the super cute neighbour, Itisha, the tallest, sona mera sabse shaitaan, to Pranjal, the most studious and mysterious, Shriya the topper, to Apurva the singer; everyone had their own place, their own bond, their own relationship and the ever-growing trust.

I think with this I will end up this post. Ohh wait......Did I forgot someone?? Yes, the 7th girl.

I forgot to mention Garima- well, this girl is the craziest of the seven girls and you know why- because she loves Iss pyaar ko kya naam dun. If for instance, there would be an earthquake, and she is watching her serial- her dialogue would include cursing down the god because of whom she had to take the break from watching the serial! :D

So, you see, even though I trust so many people in this college, the trust level actually varies. And it’s true, I wanted to write on these amazing friends of mine but had to take something as the base, so started with the very concept of “TRUST”, which is the foundation to one’s friendship!! 

Although the post is about these people and friendship- I will say this is one of the Pandora Box chapter of my life- My life @ NLU, Jodhpur!

Nikita